Alan Watts is credited with
a clear comment about the way we relate with the world about
us.
He said that - Every inside has an outside - and every
outside has an inside.
The truth of this phrase may be understood in several ways.
The stuff inside of us is expressed in the things that we
say and do.
Thoughts - Wishes - Fantasies - Hatred - Whatever is inside
of us becomes part of the life that we build.
And our life becomes a mirror of
what we’re made of
inside.
The world about us also affects us on the inside.
You are what you eat is a truism for the body.
But our mind is also shaped by the things that it consumes
- the sights, words, sounds and smells about us.
It is true for children - who soak up the words and habits
of their parents.
These lessons of our childhood form the deepest habits of
our person.
Adults are more set in their ways - but we are still affected
by the things that we see, hear and learn.
Healing is not something that we make happen.
Healing is a natural process - that occurs when we provide
it with a nourishing environment.
Ambient healing means to use words, sounds, sights and smells
- to nourish our healing and health.
Ambient healing makes a good deal of sense - when we remember
that our inside and outside are like two sides to the same
coin.
What we hold on the inside - affects the life that we build.
And what we take in from the outside - become the building
blocks of our body and mind.
Words
Can you recall words that were said to you ten or more years
ago? Can you still hear them in the sound of the voice that
spoke them?
Can you recall a time when you heard something - that changed
your outlook on life?
Words hold huge potential for impact on our person. They
can change our mind and are printed in our brain.
When listening or reading - the words of others can stir
us to great achievement.
A story of recovery can motivate our efforts - and we may
hear just what we need to hear today.
Words are one way that we pass our recovery to others.
Words resonate with conflicts inside of us. They stir our
feelings in powerful ways and can trigger the compulsion
to use.
Breaks in the day - Talking with others - and Journal Writing
are all good ways to digest the things that we hear - and
to consider their meaning to our lives.
It is exactly because of their potential for impact - that
it is always worthwhile to question the words that we hear.
Not everything that we hear will relate to us or be accurate
to our life. Some of the things that we hear will have more
to do with the person who says them - than they have anything
to do with us.
Read - Listen - Question - Relate - and Reflect on the words
that come your way today.
Sounds
We also hear many other sounds throughout a day.
Sound is everywhere about us - but for the most part we
do not listen too carefully to the sounds of traffic or the white
noise of an air conditioner or fan.
But we do hear these sounds - and they have impact within
us.
Ambient is a style of music that uses everyday sounds in
a way that is calming and refreshing to us.
Music of course is a most powerful sound.
Mix it with the right words - and there is little that has
greater potential to impact upon us.
Think of a favorite song from when you were a teenager.
Enjoy the memories, sights and feelings that are released
within you - as you hear the song again in your mind.
Music can touch us in the deepest parts of our person.
It grounds us in the moment - and can release feelings from
places long shut away.
In doing so, music can help us to heal - to connect on the
inside and to relieve our selves of stress.
Music and sound can be used in many ways that are helpful
- and healing to our condition.
SupportNet offers an introduction to the healing potential
of ambient music and sound.
Sights
The things that we see will also of course affect us.
Family photos can stir memory and feeling. The sight of
a tragic event can play in our mind for years.
Paintings - Pictures - Color - and Design all have impact
on the way that we feel.
One way to use sight is to post Recovery Minders in
places where you will see them.
Write - Pause or Take a breath deeply to your
belly - on a post it note - and stick it where you
are likely to see it.
Then follow its direction - and let the note remind you
to let go for a moment - and to settle your
self right now.
In Summary
Ambient healing means to use words, sounds, sights and smells
- to nourish our healing and health.
Ambient healing makes sense to us - when we remember that
our inside and outside are like two sides to the same coin.
What we hold on the inside - affects the life that we build.
And what we take in from the outside - become the building
blocks of our body and mind.
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