Addiction leaves us sick in body and mind - feeling
unwell - demoralized and unable to see our way out.
To understand what is necessary to heal - it can
help to know how things are supposed to work inside
of our selves.
Mind
We use our mind to see, understand and relate to
what occurs within and around us.
Our senses allow us to perceive. Imagination and
thought help us to make sense of it. And memory allows
that we need not start over again each day.
The more clearly that we see and understand the
true nature of things - the better our mental health.
Poor mental health obstructs our ability to correctly
see, understand and relate.
A restless mind sees only the surface of things.
Rational thought is consumed by repetitive worry
and tiresome mental chatter.
We allow memories of the past to distort our view
of today.
And we see others as we assume, need or want them
to be - and not as they truly are.
Some problems of mental health are beyond ability
for personal control.
But most result from unhealthy habits of mind -
or lack of simple exercise.
And when we do not see or understand things correctly
- we make mistakes in our actions.
Self Talk - Meditation - Prayer - Talking with and
Listening to others - Journal Writing and Personal
Inventory - are all ways to improve our mental health.
Let go of repetitive worry - and say the Serenity
Prayer quietly within your mind.
Question the comments that pass through your head.
Learn the ways to calm and to settle your mind.
The stuff on our mind has a great deal of influence
- on the things that we do - on our body, health
and life.
What we hold in our imagination is connected and
tangled with the functions of our body.
We have choice over the state of our mind - and
its powerful impact on our health and life.
Body and Feeling
Our body gives us life, movement and ability to
interact with others and the world.
It allows us to speak our thoughts and to take action
on our wishes.
And it is through our body that we experience feeling.
Mind, brain, body and feeling are tightly connected.
Each are distinct and one in the same.
Change in one will change the other and neither
can exist on their own.
Feelings are reactions to the events of our lives
- the things that we do or say - and the stuff that
we hold on our mind.
They are signals that arise from deep in our body
- the lightness of joy or the flash of anger.
Sometimes a feeling is just a vague sensation -
an intuition of what is right or wrong.
Such wisdom resonates from deeply within us. It
connects us to all that can be known.
We cannot control our feelings - and there is really
no need to do so. They are just feelings.
Look at the bright sky and
feel the joy. Recall a time when you’ve been
wronged - and feel the anger over again.
Feelings come and feelings pass - as fast as the
mind or life can move.
The problem with feelings is not that they occur.
Our problem with feelings is in how we relate to
them.
We judge feelings - chase after some and run from
others.
We react with out thought - to strike out in anger
or to run from our fear.
We allow our imagination to stir feelings of resentment,
anxiety and fear - while other tricks of our mind
hide other feelings entirely from our sight.
Our problem with feelings is that we ignore, over
react or hold to feelings that take on great power
in our lives.
And in doing so - we allow feelings to control our
lives and to wear on our bodies.
Feelings are just signals - that may be accurate
or not. They result from events real or imagined.
Notice them. Question them. Consider their meaning
- and your best response.
Allow feelings to pass on - and to not take hold
or control of your day.
And always remember that it is our actions that
exert the greatest impact on our feelings.
Run from fear - and increase its grip on your life.
Face your fear - and feel the power of recovery
work its way in your life.
Spirit
Vital energy, spirit or the space between our thoughts
- the observer left when all else is quiet.
Regardless what we call it - mindfulness of spirit
provides a center to our experience of life.
We spend most of our time in the business of life
- lost in the world of ego and desire.
Addiction is like a cancer of ego - disconnecting
us from everything else.
It pulls us from what we most need - a connected
sense of our self and others.
Instead of a nourishing center - we are alone on
the edge of a deadened void - running as fast as
we can.
Spiritual awakening is a moment cut through the
cloud of tricks in our mind.
It is a moment of connected experience and clarity
of truth.
And tradition has shown that spiritual awakening
is the most immediate and potent antidote to the
sick mental habits of addiction.
The Principles and Ways of Recovery provide direction
to do things differently today.
And it is when we do things differently - contrary
to the sick ways of addiction - that we allow opportunity
for spiritual awakening to occur - one step at a
time.
In Summary
Addiction leaves us sick in body and mind - feeling
unwell - demoralized and unable to see our way out.
Understanding the ways that we are supposed to work
inside - provides direction to the healing work of
our day.
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