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isn’t alcohol and drug using just a choice that
people make?
The best answer to this question is yes, no and maybe.
Starting to use alcohol or another drug
is certainly a choice. Young people face this choice every
day at school, at parties or just walking down their street.
The safest option is always abstinence.
As the driving compulsion of Substance
Addiction or Physical Dependence sets in, choice tends to
mix with need. Drug use becomes - or seems to become - less
of a choice and more of a necessity.
“I believed that
if I had to live my life I had to use. I could see no way
out. I expected to live as an addict and to die in addiction.
That was my acceptance.”
Many people are far down the course of
deep drug addiction before they realize that they are no
longer in control - it is the alcohol or drug which is controlling
them. Denial runs deep - and the Compulsion to use is far
more persistent, powerful and unexplainable than most appreciate.
“I could see every
problem in the world except my own.”
But at some point along their path, most
people who suffer with Substance Abuse and/or Addiction
will hear that recovery is possible. They may attend - or
be forced to attend - a recovery program or learning seminar
about the options for treatment.
Denial, false beliefs, compulsion and
physical dependency remain powerful motivators to use. But
once an addicted person has been introduced to the possibility
of recovery, choice is once again an option.
Do I really want to stop using? Am I prepared
to do what I need to do to recover? Can I trust what these
people are saying to me? Do I believe it possible for me
to recover? Am I a lost cause? Am I prepared to die in addiction?
These and other questions are the choices
that the addicted person will make each day of their lives
after learning about the options for recovery.
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